Welcome to Now What? with Carole Zimmer. It’s a podcast about big life decisions, transitions, how to re-invent yourself, inspiration and how we wind up navigating all those curves in road.
Episode 14: Lacey Schwartz 1/11/18
Lacey Schwartz grew up in Woodstock, New York with her parents Peggy and Robert. She went to the local schools and celebrated her bas mitzvah at the Woodstock Jewish Congregation. With her darker skin tone and curly hair, Lacey always looked different than most of her friends. Her mother said she resembled her Sicilian great-grandfather. But when she was a teenager Lacey found out the truth about her identity. She turned her coming of age story into a film called “Little White Lie.” I went to see Lacey Schwartz at her home in Rhinebeck, New York where she lives with her 4-year old twins and her husband, congressional candidate Antonio Delgado. We talked about family secrets, race and the power of denial.
Episode 13: Alan Alda 11/15/17
Who doesn't like Alan Alda? His father was a Tony-award winning actor and from the age of 3, Alda says he knew what he was going to do when he grew up. He first made a name for himself playing Hawkeye Pierce, a surgeon in a mobile operating unit during the Korean War on M*A*S*H. Alda has worked for directors like Martin Scorsese in "The Aviator" and Steven Spielberg in "Bridge of Spies." And there were the political roles including Senator Arnold Vinick on "The West Wing." Alda has also written best sellers and been married to the same woman for almost 60 years. He talks to me about what it's like to live in other people's skin and what he wants to leave behind when he's gone.
Episode 12: Norman Lear 9/27/17
This was a thrill for me, the opportunity to talk to Norman Lear. In LA, I opened Google maps and sailed onto the 405 in my rented Nissan, managing not to collide with cars whizzing by in 5 lanes and made it all the way to Lear’s Beverly Hills office. In the 70s and 80s, he was the king of television creating one hit series after another including Sanford and Son, The Jeffersons, One Day at a Time, Maude and the ground breaking All in the Family. Now, Lear, who turned 95 in July, has sold a new show to NBC about adventures in a senior community. We had so much fun, singing, laughing and talking about what it means to live in the moment and what happens when those moments run out.
Episode 11: Jane Pauley 08/23/17
She was barely 25 when she became the co-host of the Today show. Jane Pauley was the girl next door ... the one you hoped your son might marry. Then a younger, blonder woman made it a little too crowded on the set and Pauley moved on to co-host the news magazine Dateline. A series of severe mood swings eventually led her to a stint in a psychiatric ward. But Jane Pauley is a woman who's all about re-invention. Now, she’s starring in another high profile role ... host of CBS Sunday Morning. We talk about her journey in television and how life always manages to pack its share of punches.
Episode 10: Elizabeth Lesser 07/24/17
Even as a child, Elizabeth Lesser was drawn to matters of the spirit. Always a seeker, Lesser co-founded the Omega Institute, a center for holistic studies and is a frequent guest on Oprah’s SuperSoul Sunday. Lesser began her career as a midwife witnessing the many wonders of birth. In her latest book “Marrow: A Love Story,” she explores the other side of that equation. When Lesser’s younger sister Maggie got sick, Elizabeth turned out to be the perfect donor for a bone marrow transplant. The crisis helped the women to leave the past behind and love each other unconditionally. I went to see Lesser at her home in Woodstock, New York. We talked about fate, sisters and the ties that bind.
Episode 9: Gideon Irving 06/22/17
In this episode of “Now What?” you’ll hear from Gideon Irving who travels around the world performing his show in peoples’ living rooms. It’s a mix of song, magic and stories that Stephen Sondheim has called eccentric and exhilarating. In New York Gideon used roller blades to get to his shows … shlepping his harmonium, an Indian style shruti box and a musical saw in a shopping cart. He spent 4 months in New Zealand going from home to home on a bicycle. And he’s planning to spend a year on horseback, riding through what used to be called the Wild West, stopping at homes along the way. Did you know there are still horse motels? Gideon and I had a lot of laughs making up songs and talking about the true meaning of the word adventure.
Episode 8: Lesley Stahl 05/22/17
Lesley Stahl started her career at CBS in 1972, a year when networks began to feelthe pressure to hire more women. In that same year, Stahl made a name for herself covering Watergate, the scandal that led to Richard Nixon’s administration. She went on to cover the White House in the Carter, Reagan and George H.W. Bush Administrations. For the past 26 years, Stahl has been a 60 minutes Correspondent reporting from Iraq and Afghanistan, collecting 12 Emmys along the way. She says one of the best days of her life was going to see the mountain gorillas in Rwanda. The other best days have nothing to do with the news. They’re all about her grand children Jordan and Chloe. I went to 60 Minutes to talk to Stahl about why her walls are covered with photos of little children and why being a grandmother is the best assignment she’s ever had. It’s all on “Now What?” which was produced with help from Nick Ciavatta, Gabe Zimmer and Steve Zimmer.
Episode 7: Kelly Carlin 4/3/17
Kelly Carlin’s father George went from being a stand-up comic who did safe routines to a counter culture comedian whose “7 dirty words” routine went all the way to the Supreme Court. George was the guest host of the first Saturday Night Live show ever broadcast. He did 14 stand-up comedy specials for HBO, wrote three best sellers, won 5 Grammy Awards and is idolized by comedians like Louis C.K. But it wasn’t easy being the daughter of a brilliant comedian who spent too much time away from home and used too many drugs. Kelly Carlin is author of the memoir, “A Carlin Home Companion: Growing Up with George.” I went to see Kelly at her home in LA. We talked about comedy, addiction and how the Buddha was right when he taught that life is full of suffering as well as joy.
Episode 6: Nicky Vreeland 12/29/16
He wears orange and burgundy robes and he’s the only Westerner the Dalai Lama has ever chosen to be the abbot of a Tibetan Buddhist monastery. Vreeland is also the grandson of long-time Vogue editor and queen of fashion Diana Vreeland. The son of a diplomat, Vreeland spent his early life in Europe chasing women and driving fast cars. After moving back to the U,S., he apprenticed with master photographers Irving Penn and Richard Avedon. That was before Vreeland decided to become a monk, shave his head and move to a Tibetan Buddhist monastery in India. There’s a movie about Vreeland’s life called “Monk with a Camera.” I’d seen it. That’s how I recognized him walking down the street in Manhattan and asked him to be on “Now What?” Listen to what Vreeland told me about mortality, celibacy, the Dalai Lama and the experiences in life that are really important.
Episode 5: Carl Reiner 8/10/16
At the age of 28, Carl Reiner co-wrote and acted on Your Show of Shows with Sid Caesar. One night, driving home on the East River Drive in Manhattan, Reiner decided to write a situation comedy based on his own family life. The series, which became the Dick Van Dyke show, ran for 5 years and won 15 Emmys. In the 60s, Reiner teamed up with Mel Brooks. They began doing a comedy sketch at parties. Reiner was the straight man and Brooks was the 2000 Year Old Man who had 42,000 children and not one of them ever came to visit. Reiner also directed Steve Martin in “The Jerk” and “Dead Men Don’t Wear Plaid.” Now, at 94 he’s writing two books. I spent an afternoon with Carl Reiner at his Beverly Hills home where he told me he always wanted to be an Irish tenor and then burst into song.
Episode 4: Eve Ensler 4/12/16
Her 20s were tumultuous, filled with drugs and alcohol. She was a waitress. She cleaned houses. Then she wrote “The Vagina Monologues,” a theater piece that changed the lives of thousands of people, especially her own. It’s been published in 48 languages and performed in more than 140 countries. Ensler also founded a community for women in the Congo and survived a near fatal battle with cancer. Check out our conversation about the emotional distances she's traveled, what happens when you see too much, gratitude and why she likes nothing better than constant change.
Episode 3: Karen Allen 1/18/16
She was still an acting student when she landed a part in a movie called Animal House starring John Belushi and her career took off. Then she was Marion Ravenwood, Harrison Ford’s love interest in “Raiders of the Lost Ark.” But when she decided to leave NYC for the country, Karen Allen’s movie career took more of a detour than she expected. So she opened a yoga studio and started her own textile company, making cashmere sweaters on a Japanese knitting machine. I went to see Karen Allen in the little town in the Berkshires where she showed me around the charming house she lives in that was built in the 1700s and was once a barn. We spent the afternoon chatting about re-invention, karma, the downside of facelifts and why she wants acting and directing to be at the center of her life again now that she’s 64.
Episode 2: Robert Klein 12/06/15
He’s been doing stand-up for 50 years and he’s sometimes called the comedian’s comedian. For Jay Leno, Robert Klein is a comic hero. “He was a guy who I felt was like me. Middle class, normal parents. Watched the same TV shows I watched and that was a big change in comedy.” Jerry Seinfeld points to Klein as one of the most “intelligent, coolest comedians around.” I caught up with Klein in upstate New York where he was appearing at the Woodstock Comedy Festival. Turns out we had a lot in common. We’re both from the Bronx, our mothers used to throw quarters out of the window so we could get ice cream and we both worked as substitute teachers. Check out our conversation below.
Epsiode 1: At Home With Gloria Steinem 10/20/15
In this first episode, you’ll hear from someone who has changed the world for women and keeps on changing it. We got to spend an afternoon with Gloria Steinem shooting the breeze in her cozy Manhattan brownstone.
It’s Gloria like you’ve never heard her before. We went into her closet and checked out her black motorcycle jacket with the spikes, talked about mortality, Ms. Piggy and all the things that make Gloria Steinem laugh. Now What was produced with help from Nellie Gilles, Nick Ciavatta and Allison Bernstein.